In love and relationships, some of our deepest feelings are expressed and played out, and here our learned strategies, unconscious sabotage mechanisms and mutual dynamics can trigger inappropriate behavior that prevents us from having good and meaningful relationships. Infidelity, breach of trust, jealousy, mentally or physically violent partners, gaslighting, stonewalling and other negative patterns can be difficult to break out of, but there is great opportunity for development and self-development precisely in relationship work. I offer both individual and couples therapy and have many years of experience in this field.